“Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth.”
You may be a person who has been in a situation when the people around you don’t seem to have recognized your talents. You may have put your serious and solemn and valuable efforts to develop your skills, or services or products that you might have thought they are of great benefits, but people don’t seem to get it.
True, such situations can erode your courage, confidence and hope, but you need not discourage yourself at all, neither you should let others discourage you; nor should these situations make you lose your hope and enthusiasm, as these could offer great benefits and opportunities. You must be your own best friend and bring your own light to the darkness!
Remember that when others do not recognize your abilities and potential, it does not mean that you are untalented, but it’s their inability of not recognizing your abilities. It should not matter in your journey of success. So, it’s far better to move forward to follow your dreams. Here are some ways that could help you in finding your ways for success in your personal objectives.
Though such situations may harm you emotionally, but you should not lose hope in life. You should know one of the facts of life is life is hope and life is the name of struggle. If you want to move forward with your life successfully you need to bear it in your mind that success comes to those who will and dare.
Not everyone fulfills his dreams. You have to encourage yourself that you are a person who not only dream dreams, but also want to fulfill them based on your strengths and edifying and educating yourself.
No wonder you face discouragements being among those who either don’t recognize what you have acquired and been gifted, or they use discouraging words to bring you down. Don’t let your feelings hurt, but let your daily struggles get the best of you.
When one door closes, another door opens. If the people around you do not appreciate your talents, then, it’s better to find those who need your talents and support you to grow and develop. Being with people who are not appreciative or supportive is not letting your talent shine. You can find like-minded people who, appreciating you talents, can let your talents thrive.
Discover the power within you. Learn to be mentally and emotionally strong when you receive negative comments from the people around you. Do not associate discouragement with disappointment. Discouragement can be dealt successfully. If you lose hope, it’s difficult to get it back. It’s therefore important to be hopeful and positive always. Remember that making yourself feel that something desirable will happen is actually to make that thing happen based on your sincere and persistent efforts.
Your talent is your wealth. As wealth gives confidence, so does your talent. It’s your talent that gives you the power to gain wealth helping you prosper as well. It’s nothing but your talent that sets you apart from others making you a unique person.
K. A. Fareed (Fareed Siddiqui)
Writer, Trainer, Author, Blogger, Software Developer
BBA, MBA-Finance, MPhil-Financial Management, (MSc-Software Engineering)
Post Graduate Diploma in Computer Applications and Programming
Certificate course in English language proficiency
Level 1 – Leadership and Management ILM – UK
Individual Member of Institute of Management Consultants of India